While browsing through my timeline, I found myself frequently scrolling pass “butt” images both naked and covered, that various women had posted. Of course their comment boxes were flooded with “Damn baby” and “don’t hurt me like that” and let me not forget the “let me put that on my face”.
Now before any conclusions are made, I am not saying that there is anything wrong with this. If a woman is comfortable displaying her body like this, then hey, go right ahead. At the end of the day, the only thing that matters is your individual happiness. Just as well, if men choose to glorify this, fantastic! You like what you like.
However, there is one thing that I do not understand. If this is not the type of woman a man would marry, then why do men encourage the behavior? I hear men say all the time that women who flaunt themselves on social media are attention whores, and that they wouldn’t wife them they just want to hit. These same men are usually the first to comment on these pictures.
Men are so quick to say that they want “a lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets”, and in the same breath create a status asking women to post ass and breast shots for likes and comments-most of which I find extremely hilarious. Is this not considered to be FALSE ADVERTISEMENT? Is it not misleading to ask women to expose themselves to the world, and then degrade and belittle them for doing so? Is there no hypocrisy in asking any woman to do the very same thing that if it were your daughter or spouse would cause you to swell in anger?
Again, I write this not to condemn anyone. I only want to know why men don’t uplift women who display the traits they wish to find in a spouse, rather than give standing ovations to those who portray the complete opposite.
Just my thoughts.
We can all sip on that!
Lady Tee
